Elderly clients will often tell me that they are unlikely to adopt another dog or cat because they are concerned about predeceasing them. This can be a heartbreaking situation when no preparations are made in the event of such an occurrence, however it is the elderly who so often benefit from the companionship of a feline or canine friend.
For all of us, young and old, there is no way to know what will transpire in the future. As a result, it is wise to consider planning for alternate care should it be needed. One of the concerns many owners express, is that their dog or cat will not adjust to a new situation, and some owners’ final wishes are that their healthy pets be euthanized should they be predeceased. This is a difficult professional and moral dilemma for me as a veterinarian, and I believe it poses a similar dilemma for many family members. It is the reason I urge all pet owners to make a plan for alternate care.
In preparation for alternate care here are some ideas:
Prearrange re-homing, should the need arise, with a friend, family member, or pet lover. Although sharing a pet may be one solution, minimally, it would be ideal for your pet to visit the other person and home occasionally so that both may become familiar and comfortable.
Make a provision in a will for financial support for your pet.
Consider discussing, with the alternate care giver, the diets, routines and habits your pet may be accustomed to, or perhaps even document them in writing.
In order to facilitate a smooth transition, discuss with your pet’s veterinarian, groomer, dog walker, daycare or other care providers your plans, and let them know the name or names of the people who will be involved.
In my experience, dogs and cats are adaptable to change, especially when some steps have been taken in advance to familiarize them with a new situation. It is so important for all of us to enjoy the unconditional companionship of canine and feline family, knowing that if we can no longer care for them ourselves, they will continue to have wonderful lives.